You know what bothers me a little? I'm not really good friends with my ex-gf's. Some friends are still close with their ex's, and I think that's great. Some people say it shouldn't matter; they're gone. But isn't it a shame to have opened yourself up to someone so much, for someone to know you so well, and then to have them out of your life completely? Those should be the makings of a really good friend! But alas, when things end "wrong", such friendships are hard to rekindle; it's a defensive mechanism against possibly getting abused / hurt again. I can understand that.